168: Should businesses skip out on Black Friday promos? And what to do instead!

 

Skip the Black Friday hustle: 4 strategic alternatives for mission-driven business owners

The clocks have fallen back, Halloween decorations are packed away, and according to my 14-year-old, Christmas season officially started Monday. Which means we've entered the lucrative year-end selling season - that intense period between now and December 31st when we're bombarded with Black Friday deals, Cyber Monday offers, Thanksgiving promos, and end-of-year discounts.

It can be a lot.

The FOMO and pressure to participate in these promotions can feel as overwhelming as the desire to hide under a rock and avoid the whole consumerism circus entirely. Here's what I want you to know: both responses are completely valid for your business. You can choose to sell, or you can choose to sit this one out.

In this week's episode, I'm sharing a conversation I had with my friend and fellow marketer Mariana Henninger on her podcast Empire Secrets. We covered different ways you can participate in year-end marketing and selling - or not. When I listened back to this episode, I realized there were some golden nuggets and ideas I hadn't shared before that could really help you navigate this season with more intention and alignment.

The two sides of Black Friday

Let's face it - Black Friday and Cyber Monday represent one of the most lucrative weekends for selling. But it's also an incredibly noisy time to be selling. If you're wanting to participate, you're dealing with a double-edged sword. On one hand, people are actively looking for Black Friday deals and content. On the other hand, you have to be able to stand out and really nail your messaging and marketing to cut through all that noise.

Option 1: Align with your values

You can approach Black Friday as an alignment with your values. If you're concerned about climate change, the environment, or you've witnessed social challenges this year that make participating in mass consumerism feel misaligned, you can absolutely sit this one out.

But here's the key: instead of going radio silent, send messaging before Black Friday explaining why you're sitting this one out. Share what's calling your heart to make this choice. Talk about the things you care about. This messaging will only magnetize your ideal people closer to you, because they'll see your values reflected in your business decisions.

You might even have resources or products that align with your brand values that you could promote instead - things that invite people to consider different ways of participating during Black Friday and Cyber Monday.

4 Strategic alternatives to traditional Black Friday selling

If you've decided to sit out the traditional Black Friday approach, here are four productive ways you can still leverage this period for your business:

1. Create a Swipe File (best of and worst of)

You're already getting flooded with Black Friday emails and promotions. Instead of just deleting them, start collecting the marketing that really resonates with you in a swipe file. This becomes your inspiration folder for future campaigns and promotions.

Take it a step further and create both a "best of" and "worst of" folder. If you're in a business where you talk about marketing, coaching techniques, or business strategy, you can use these examples to create future content about effective versus ineffective marketing approaches.

2. Unsubscribe - generously

Let's create some spaciousness in our inboxes. We know we're going to get flooded with promotional emails, and you'll notice that newsletters you haven't heard from all year will suddenly pop up with "Hey, I'm having a sale!"

Use that unsubscribe button generously. Clear out the digital clutter. Create more mental bandwidth to focus on and consume the quality content you actually want to see. Let's be generous this season - generous with our unsubscribing.

3. Participate in Giving Tuesday

Giving Tuesday exists as an antidote to the consumerism of Black Friday, Small Business Saturday, and Cyber Monday. It's a day focused on philanthropy and giving back to your community. Here are several ways you can participate:

  • Use your platform to highlight and celebrate charities that are meaningful to you

  • Run a social campaign where you donate a specific amount for every like, share, or reply

  • If you do decide to have any kind of sale, donate a portion of proceeds to your favorite charities

  • Consider donating your services and volunteering with your favorite charity

  • Offer "pay what you can" sessions with proceeds going to disaster relief or causes you care about

This approach helps your brand rise above the noise and really connects with people who share your values.

4. Shop smart for your business

Take advantage of the sales to get things you actually need for your business. If you need a new podcast microphone, headphones, software subscriptions, or services that typically go on sale during this period, this is your opportunity to save money on legitimate business investments.

The key is being intentional about what you're purchasing rather than getting swept up in sale fever.

The risk of training your audience for discounts

One important consideration if you do decide to participate in Black Friday promotions: there's always the risk of training people to wait for discounts. When you regularly offer sales, customers start anticipating them and may delay purchases.

Here are two strategies to mitigate this:

Create Bundles: Instead of discounting individual items, bundle products or services together for a higher average order value. Rather than "$10 off every purchase," offer "$50 off when you buy three programs together."

Add Bonuses Instead of Discounts: Especially for service-based businesses, consider adding valuable bonuses rather than discounting your core services. This maintains the perceived value of your main offerings while still providing extra incentive.

Consider pre-Black Friday strategies

One smart approach is running a flash sale before Black Friday hits - like what Laura Belgray did with her recent promotion. This allows you to:

  • Avoid competing with the noise of the actual Black Friday weekend

  • Capture people who are already in "sale mindset" but before they're overwhelmed

  • Maintain your regular pricing during the peak promotional period

The decision-making framework

The pressure to participate in Black Friday is real. We're constantly hit with messaging about how to prepare, what kind of sale to run, and what we "need" to do to win during this period. It's easy to get swept up in that energy.

But take a step back and consider:

  • What are your year-end goals?

  • What do you have the mental bandwidth to execute well?

  • How do you want to spend the Thanksgiving weekend?

  • Do you want to be actively selling when people are trying to spend time with family and friends?

Values-based business building

Whether you choose to participate in Black Friday promotions or sit them out, the most important thing is that your decision aligns with your values and the experience you want to create for your community.

Some of my favorite businesses during this season are the ones that give generous timelines - a whole week or even two weeks to make decisions rather than the high-pressure "24 hours only" approach. People are with family, they're not necessarily in front of computers, and they don't want to feel pressured to make quick purchasing decisions during family time.

If you do run a promotion, consider extending it and explaining why: "I want you to be able to make a good decision. I want you to be able to spend time with your friends and family, just like I'm doing."

The bottom line

This year-end selling season doesn't have to be a source of stress or pressure. You have options. You can participate in ways that feel aligned, or you can sit it out entirely and focus on other business-building activities.

What matters most is making a conscious choice that supports both your business goals and your personal values. Your ideal clients will respect and be drawn to that authenticity, whether you're offering a promotion or taking a different approach entirely.

The most sustainable businesses are built on clear values and consistent messaging, not on following every marketing trend or feeling pressured to participate in every promotional opportunity.

Whatever you choose, own it fully and communicate it clearly. Your people will follow your lead.

Resources

Get added to the notification list for the Sales Email Course:

If you're planning any kind of promotion before year-end, grab my signature sales sequence in my upcoming five-day email course. Each day you'll get a mini training and workbook to guide you through writing the five key emails you need for a successful flash sale. Email me at hello@kimkiel.com to be notified when it launches.

Get Mariana Henninger's Instant YES Machine:
http://brandmagnetic.com/yesmachine

 

Binge the Black Friday Cyber Monday Survival Guide Playlist:
https://www.kimkiel.com/podcast-1/the-business-owners-black-friday-cyber-monday-survival-guide 

 

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